Create Your Destiny

Welcome to part 2 of my review of NLP Presuppositions. If you missed part one, click here. There is no failure, only feedback All responses we get from our actions have value by providing us with the opportunity to learn from our experiences and use that feedback to make adjustments. The NLP concept of T.O.T.E. [...]

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You’re traveling along a lonely two lane country road in the early morning darkness. Headlights loom in the distance as another car approaches. Its driver, inattentive or momentarily distracted, suddenly veers into your path seconds before impact. You’re going about 50 mph and the other driver probably a bit more so there’s no time for [...]

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Welcome to part 3, the final installment of my review of NLP Presuppositions. Choice is Better Than No Choice People will sometimes take a specific course of action that seems less than optimal because they don’t perceive any other viable options. “What else was I supposed to do”, “I just couldn’t help it”, or “I [...]

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Neuro-Linguistic Programming or NLP has as its foundation a set of beliefs known as presuppositions. These beliefs form the basis of the many practical applications derived from NLP that are so incredibly useful in helping people achieve positive change in their lives. These beliefs are incorporated into NLP as presuppositions not because they are always [...]

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One thing that fascinates me is the process we go about of translating our experiences from the events that take place to the words we use to express them linguistically and store them in our minds. OK, I know that sounds really boring but it’s not. Trust me. In the same way that… well I [...]

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What is a limiting belief? It’s anything you choose to believe about yourself that limits your ability to achieve success in a given area. For example, consider the following statements: I’ll never get that raise because I’m __________. Customers won’t buy from me because I __________. People are mean. Nobody ever listens to me. My [...]

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Are there areas or interactions in your life where your performance is less than optimal? Are there real life situations that you either fear or dread that take place during the normal course of events in your life weather you like it or not? Of course there are. Everyone goes through situations like these at [...]

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Think of it as a dance. Two dancers gliding across the floor, moving in harmony, becoming one with the music and one with each other…flowing together effortlessly. The song ends and gently one leads the other over to an empty table nestled in a relatively quiet and picturesque corner of the club and orders a [...]

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One of the most important things you can do in interpersonal communications is to learn how to build excellent rapport. Rapport is that feeling of commonality that happens when two people just seem to

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Ever wanted to know what someone is really thinking when having a conversation with them?  If you’re interested in what’s going on behind the curtain so to speak, NLP eye accessing cues can provide you with some valuable insight. They are not hard and fast, error free rules that work 100% of the time – [...]

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